As dancers, we’re constantly striving for mastery, for perfection in movement and technique. But what happens when life nudges us into something entirely new, something we may not feel ready for? That’s exactly where I find myself these days — both in the studio and beyond. And I have to say, while it’s been a little nerve-wracking, it’s also been wonderfully rewarding.
A New Step: Teaching Toddler Dance Classes
I’ve recently partnered with the incredible midwife, Lynn Darbyshire, to offer something very special: Toddler Dance Courses in Munich. Lynn, whom I met during my pregnancy, has long been dedicated to supporting expat women through pregnancy and motherhood. Now, she’s expanded her vision, bringing together an amazing team of women under her ‘Pippagina‘ umbrella creating classes and courses for women in all phases of life. From pregnancy and postpartum support to baby and toddler activities to perimenopause and menopause workshops, her team covers it all. And I’m thrilled to be a part of it by offering dance classes for toddlers, including those where parents can join in.
For me, teaching toddlers is a new adventure. Working with such young dancers is vastly different from my typical classes, and if I’m being honest, I was initially reluctant. I’ve always focused on older students, where I could guide them through structured techniques and combinations. Toddlers, however, are a different story — they’re energetic, spontaneous, and not always ready to follow a set routine!
Stepping Out of My Comfort Zone
At first, the idea of teaching dance to toddlers seemed daunting. How do you engage such young children in a way that introduces them to movement while keeping it fun and light? I was nervous about trying something so unfamiliar. But I reminded myself of a lesson I often share with my students: growth happens when you step out of your comfort zone.
Through a few trial classes, I’ve already learned so much. The little ones bring an energy and joy that is contagious, and I’m beginning to understand how much I can learn from them. Dance at that age is about pure expression, about moving with freedom and joy. There’s a certain magic in that, and it reminded me of the simplest reason we all started dancing in the first place: it makes us happy.
I have the feeling that the courses will be a lot of fun for me too. I will come with a plan but have to be ready to through that plan out the window! My new little dancers will keep me on my toes for sure and this will teach me a lot. Not only to be adaptable but to really discover what works best for them in a dance class and how I can create courses that guide and teach dancers in a whole new way.
Adapting as a Self-Employed Teacher
As a self-employed dance instructor, it’s crucial to be flexible and adapt to what students are looking for. The dance world is ever-evolving, and the needs of families in Munich reflect that. I’ve realized that offering toddler dance classes isn’t just about teaching movement — it’s about creating a space where parents and children can bond, share experiences, and enjoy time together.
It’s also a wonderful opportunity to expand my offerings and attract new students. At the end of the day, as much as dance is my passion, it’s also my business. And sometimes, trying something new is the best way to grow both personally and professionally.
Back in the Studio: Rediscovering My Dance Practice
Speaking of new experiences, I recently took a step I’ve longed to take for a while now: I finally made it back into the studio for a dance class. After two years, I found the time to attend a class here in Munich, and let me tell you — the nerves were real!
Before the class, I felt a wave of uncertainty. Would I still be able to do what I once did so well? It had been so long since I’d focused on my own dance practice that I wasn’t sure what to expect. But as soon as the music started and I began moving, it all came rushing back. The joy, the flow, the sheer pleasure of dancing.
Of course, my body wasn’t quite as strong or flexible as it used to be. I felt the strain in muscles I hadn’t used in a while, and there were definitely moments where I had to laugh at myself. But even in those challenging moments, I found so much joy. It reminded me once again that dancing isn’t about being perfect (especially now that I am not doing it professionally); it’s about expressing yourself, feeling the music, and enjoying the process. Here’s to me channeling the minds of those little dancers I have been teaching!
Embracing the Journey
These recent experiences — teaching toddlers and returning to my own dance practice — have reminded me that trying something new, even when intimidating, can lead to immense joy and growth. Whether you’re a dancer exploring a new style or a parent stepping into a class with your child, the act of trying is itself a victory.
I’m excited about this new chapter, both as a teacher and a dancer, and I hope it encourages you to step out of your comfort zone, try something new, and discover the joy that comes with it.
With love,
Harriet